If looks could kill

February 2, 2022
Issue 
The survival of abuse culture is dependent on submissive smiles and self-defeating surrenders.

Since the 1990s, women in the West have been told we are emancipated. But the 鈥渇eminism鈥澛爓hich claims this聽is really only concerned about the empowerment of some women and only in the context of .

Liberal feminism鈥檚 focus is on an individual鈥檚 success within class society and its institutions and less on the fight against systemic oppression and economic inequality. By its very nature, it聽excludes women of colour, Black women, First Nations women, disabled women, queer women, trans people, poor women and other marginalised groups.

Its idealised version of womanhood 鈥 a supposedly 鈥渆mpowered鈥 modern woman who is smiling, confident, gracious, (usually) white and cis-gendered 鈥 is disseminated across social media, advertising and the mainstream media.

This is the context in which we can begin to understand the furious response to last year's聽Australian of the Year Grace Tame鈥檚 decision to not smile when standing next to Prime Minister Scott Morrison on January 25.

How dare she signal that women are not happy with the system?

Tame provoked outrage because she did not behave in a way she was expected to, particularly for a successful woman in the media spotlight. By not smiling, Tame did not take up her prescribed role; she was defiant, not submissive.

Her silent, yet powerful, protest tipped conservative commentator to rant that she 鈥渨as ungracious, rude and childish鈥, even claiming she was not being a 鈥渄ecent human being鈥.

Van Onselen is not only a vocal supporter of alleged rapist Christian Porter, he is also pursuing a defamation case, along with Porter and Andrew Lamming, against author and abuse survivor academic , for a supposedly offensive tweet.

Conservative commentator labelled Tame a 鈥済raceless sourpuss鈥. described Tame鈥檚 action as 鈥渃hildish disobedience鈥, accusing her of 鈥渟quandering鈥 the year on 鈥減olitical sniping鈥. 鈥淧ersonal antipathy is hardly a revolution,鈥 she sniped in her January 25 column for Fairfax.

Pru Goward, a bastion of bourgeois聽feminism, jumped at the opportunity to attack Tame for supposedly not passing on the feminism baton. She also defended Morrison who, she claims, is a 鈥渨ell-meaning and blindsided prime minister鈥.

Why should a survivor of rape, whose has drawn attention to the systemic, pervasive and institutional nature of sexual abuse, smile when standing next to a PM who has paid lip-service to supporting women and survivors of sexual assault but taken no real action?

It was Morrison鈥檚 decision to not adopt all the recommendations of the Sex Discrimination Commissioner鈥檚 report into sexual harassment in the workplace. Morrison continued to support Porter in the role as attorney-general, until he became a political liability having refused to disclose who was funding his court case. Morrison would have had a hand in the decision that an independent body, set up to investigate sexual assault in parliament, would not look into Bittany Higgins鈥 rape complaint.

These are all good reasons for while standing next to the PM. But there are plenty more, including that his government abolished the Family Court (merging it with the Federal Circuit Court) and that he thinks it is a 鈥渢riumph of democracy鈥 that the tens of thousands of women who joined the March4Justice protests last March were not 鈥渕et with bullets鈥.

Tame has, of course, also received masses of support for her silent protest. There is a greater understanding that structural change is needed to tackle misogyny and sexism.

The fuss made by conservatives about Tame not smiling was aimed at undercutting her advocacy for survivors and undermining her eloquent critiques of the PM鈥檚 failure to address violence against women.

that: 鈥淭he survival of abuse culture is dependent on submissive smiles and self-defeating surrenders. It is dependent on hypocrisy. My past is only relevant to the extent that I have seen 鈥 in fact I have worn 鈥 the consequences of civility for the sake of civility.鈥

Civility for the sake of civility is what keeps up the fa莽ade. But cracks are starting to appear, including from The Project鈥檚 presenters who challenged聽van Onselen, their own network鈥檚 smug political editor, over his聽attack on聽Tame.

Daily, the news reports sexual assaults on women and, of course, so many go unreported. is the latest corporation to admit harassment and racism is rife across its operations, following an external review.

If the furore around Tame鈥檚 protest is anything to go by, women and our allies have a lot of work to do. . We need this to be massive, and one that wipes the smirk off Morrison鈥檚 face.

[Markela Panegyres is a member of the .]

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